The Woman in Me
Ratings298
Average rating3.9
I was not the biggest fan of her narration style, which is completely personal and subjective of me to explain. It was not for me
I am not a big fan of biographies and to be honest I was more interested in this book for the conservatorship and that was imo a bit glazed over. That was to be expected, I don't blame Britney for not wanting to dedicate more time to what seemed like hell on earth. It was quick and it was nice to get her insight on it.
Let's not wait for a memoir to actually start being empathetic, and see that people are doing the best they can. What a strong woman!
3.5 ⭐️
“My voice had been used for me, and against me, so many times that I was afraid nobody would recognise it now if I spoke freely.”
Crazy
Este es un libro en el que se nota la falta de pericia escritural de su autora, ya que tiende a ser repetitivo, disperso y a veces circular. No soy lector de memorias, así que no tengo demasiados puntos de comparación más allá de otro par de libros, pero ese no es el punto, para nada. No vienes aquí a encontrar a una escritora, sino a acercarte a la verdad de lo que le pasó a Britney contado por sí misma, finalmente usando su propia voz.
Si lo lees con esos ojos, con los ojos de alguien intrigado por conocer qué fue de la chica apenas unos años mayor que tú que se adueñó de MTV en tu adolescencia y que te enamoró al punto de llenar tu cuarto con sus pósters y tus pantallas con sus videos y que de repente pareció descender a la locura, desaparecer, ser olvidada y resurgir en medio de teorías de conspiración (que resultaron ser ciertas), y extraños bailes con cuchillos... solo así puedes quizás entender que esta es la historia de alguien que necesitaba rellenar todos esos vacíos que la mentira, el poder, y el abuso perpetrados por un padre maldito y una familia cómplice perpetraron en ella durante trece horrorosos años de encarcelamiento, automatización, infantilización y no-vida.
Al final, es imposible contener algunas lágrimas de compasión en los momentos más duros y más increíbles de su historia. Fui fan acérrimo de Britney Spears cuando salió su primer disco y también durante el segundo y parte del tercero, después la vi con asombro en algunos momentos posteriores: Para mí fue la schoolgirl que sacaba la lengua en cada “L”, la diosa fantástica de látex rojo, la Lilith sudorosa bailando con serpientes, la cambiaformas semidesnuda tras un traje de estrellas transparentes. En fin, Britney Spears fue siempre para mí uno de esos muchos estereotipos de belleza femenina y perfección obnubilante, aunque le perdiera el rastro y me riera, como tantos otros indolentes, de su versión de mujer desquiciada y rapada, amenazante con su paraguas. Que tan poco entendimos a Britney, al mundo desquiciado del showbusiness, a las mujeres.
Me quedo con una extraña mezcla de vergüenza de segunda mano (perdonen el calco del inglés) por todo lo que le hicieron, un sentimiento enorme de compasión hacia ella y hacia todas las mujeres que han sufrido en silencio horrores como el suyo (recomiendo revisar aquí un horror similar vivido por Camille Claudel a manos del hijo de perra de Auguste Rodin), y con una gran admiración por la fuerza que tuvo esta mujer para no matarse y dejarse borrar.
Para cerrar, me quedo con una cita que resume la principal enseñanza que nos deja su historia: “Recuerda: tú lengua es tú espada.”
No te dejes borrar.
4/5 - Justice for Britney! Her family did her so wrong. The men in her life are trash and failed her! Britney only wanted a family and to settle down. While I do believe Britney needs extensive therapy for all she has gone through, I'm glad she was able to share her story. Michelle Williams did a great job narrating.
Completely enraging and eye-opening regarding the persistent use of medieval forms of imprisonment to control women no matter how much stardom, wealth, and fame they acquire.
Love this book... Britney Spears is emotionally raw in this memoir... and its a must read for every 90s kid...
Wow. Definitely tells all. I’m sad that she had to go through all she did, but I’m glad that period of her life is over.
In "A Woman in Me", Britney Spears takes us on a whirlwind journey from her roots in Louisiana to the glittering stages of international fame. What sets this memoir apart is Britney's unapologetic honesty. She lays bare the highs and lows of her life in the spotlight, giving us a raw and unfiltered look at the chaotic world of celebrity.
You can't help but admire her strength as she confronts the darkest moments of her past with courage and determination.
But through it all, she's like a phoenix rising from the ashes, showing this incredible mix of strength and vulnerability. She has went through so much, and I'm glad she now has found her peace.
While I don't consider myself a Britney fan, I used to listen to her music or watch her videos on MTV while getting ready for school. Still, I'm glad I picked this book up. This book was easy to read and listen to, it felt like listening to a friend talk for hours
3.5/5
I had the chance to listen to the audiobook version while doing chores and errands. I found myself surprisingly familiar with most of the things she discussed in this memoir. Credit goes to my older sister, who is a devoted Britney fan back in the early 2000s. Our household was constantly filled with her music, the MTV music videos, and thanks to her cassette collection of her albums, This pre-existing knowledge allowed me to not only follow the book's narrative but also connect with the emotional journey Britney describes.
One of the most striking aspects of the Britney's life is her incredible rise to fame. The book portrays a young girl from a small town thrust into the relentless spotlight. It's on a scale almost unimaginable in today's world. Her transformation from unknown teenager to global pop icon feels so rapid, it makes you wonder if, in today's terms, she wouldn't be considered an “industry plant.” Britney, however, transcends that label. Her raw talent and undeniable charisma are what truly propelled her to superstardom. Gosh who didn't have a crush on her back then?
She became the ultimate mega-star, a cultural phenomenon with the likes of Michael Jackson or Madonna. Lady Gaga might come close, but no artist has quite managed to capture the public imagination in the same way. Britney's music dominated the airwaves, her dance moves were imitated everywhere, and her personal life became a constant tabloid headline. She was truly EVERYWHERE in her prime. She was the last of her kind.
The book delves into the darker side of fame, particularly the intense scrutiny and control Britney faced. It's hard not to feel a surge of anger on her behalf as the narrative details the controlling influences in her life, from her family to her past relationships. The book doesn't shy away from calling out those who exploited or manipulated her. This raw honesty makes the book both empowering and heartbreaking. (FUCK YOU JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE)
The most important takeaway for me is the hope that she finally finds true happiness and freedom. No more forced performances, no more living for the expectations of others – just genuine joy and the chance to reclaim her own life. In sharing her story, Britney not only inspires but also reminds us of the human cost of fame and the importance of fighting for your own voice.
From the bits and pieces of what I'd hear about Britney's conservatorship, I knew this situation was fucked. But I didn't know just how fucked it all was and not even 60% of the way through I was this close to wishing death on everybody. I'm so serious. This got me so fucking heated. I've never been a die hard fan or anything. I honestly went into it not thinking I'd be as emotionally invested as I was.
I think everyone knows what it feels like, or can at least imagine, having something you love ripped away from you. That was the feeling I was connecting to most. Everything, in my opinion, that was branded as evil or bad during her breakdown is explained away by that feeling. You don't get to take away someone's children and expect them to be fine. You don't get to imprison them and expect things to be fine.
As for the writing itself, it's pretty basic memoir stuff! Conversational with a sprinkle of cliches in there. Sometimes it felt repetitive but I also think you earn the right to be repetitive when you've been gaslit and exploited over and over. That repetition IS the story. My major complaint is that some of info feels thrown in and it moves so fast (in a not good way). I just wanted certain moments to slow down so we could get a sense of what was happening physically and in her mind when it happened. The best moments in this book were when Britney gave details/imagery of major moments in her life. The one I would probably reference is when she takes one of her kids into the bathroom until the SWAT team has to come. While it's not a long scene, it truly explores how she felt and doesn't feel thrown in. There's one moment where she writes about being in a car and almost driving off a cliff. I remember reading this and being super confused. It felt like it came out of nowhere. And I wasn't even sure what was going on...like physically? I think this could've had one more look through to ensure all the details were relevant. But at the end of the day, if Britney thinks they are then they are.
I was mostly interested to hear about the conservatorship aspect of the book. This was no doubt the most gripping part. But it was also cool to see Britney call out the people that helped her (and the people that harmed her) and speak on moments of her career that shes never spoken on before.
i <3 britney and thats all that matters
i think its hard to really judge a memoir so i wont
Listen, I'm so very happy she gets to make her own choices now and the hell her family and the media put her through is horrible. That said, if I'm rating this as a book and thoughtfully approaching the memior and writing itself, it's a bit rough. Very surface and not well written. I'm glad she's able to use her voice and for that alone I'm happy to support it, I just can't give it a high rating on literary merit.
I just finished Britney Spears Book - The woman in me and here are my thoughts.
I am a huge Britney fan. Have been since I first heard hit me baby one more time. I'm only a few months older than her, so she grew up with me.
I always felt sorry for her for the troubles with her ex, losing her sons and the insanity with her family... The problem is her book... so dull. So much happened to her and her thought process was so monotone. I've seen Britney on stage. She is larger than life but this book, I felt like she was writing it for the sake of writing it.
It was nice to see how she felt but I don't feel the life of her. I wonder if life has just sucked it from her and that makes me even more sad for her. She never got to just be a child and that can be so hard.
I am glad she found herself but it's a real shame she couldn't put her personality onto the pages. I wish Britney the life she deserves. One where she can live in peace.
3.5 stars
From a literary perspective, this isn't a great book; its writing is quite simple. However, as a teenager, I was in love with Britney, so now nearing my 40s I really enjoyed this book a lot. And I'm really sorry for Britney. Maybe she deserved a few sht, but she got tons of undeserved sht.
Wow! What a read!
Britney Spears is such an inspiration. This memoir is the best I have read in my life.
What Britney went through is just insane and, not only did she survive, but she is also thriving.
Reading this, I felt all sorts of emotions: nostalgia, excitement, sadness, anxiety, frustration, hope and happiness.
Whether or not you are a fan of the artist, this is a must read for anyone seeking inspiration (man or women), for the women (Britney Spears) is a true hero.
Trigger warning, however, the men (and certain women) in her life (except her brother and two sons of course) are trash.
Wow! Quelle lecture!
Britney Spears est une telle source d'inspiration. Cette autobiographie est la meilleure que j'ai jamais lue de ma vie. Ce que Britney a traversé est tout simplement fou et, non seulement elle a survécu, mais elle s'épanouit également. En lisant ceci, j'ai ressenti toutes sortes d'émotions : nostalgie, excitation, tristesse, anxiété, frustration, espoir et bonheur.
Que vous soyez fan de l'artiste ou non, c'est une lecture incontournable pour toute personne en quête d'inspiration (homme ou femme), car cette femme (Britney Spears) est une véritable héroïne.
Attention cependant, les hommes (et quelques femmes) de sa vie (à l'exception de son frère et de ses deux fils bien sûr) sont horribles.