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A three-year-old is a real puzzle to parents, sometimes anxious to please and befriend, sometimes strong-willed and difficult to get along with. At the heart of the three-year-old’s personality is often an emotional insecurity—and this causes a host of problems for parents! Drs. Ames and Ilg, recognized authorities on child behavior and development, help parents understand what’s going on inside that three-year-old head, what problems children have, and how to cope with the toddler who is sometimes friend, sometimes enemy. Included in this book: • Jealousy of a new sibling • Toilet training • How to improve a child’s eating habits • Friendships with peers • Common fears • Developing language skills • Nursery school • Books for parents and three-year-olds “Louise Bates Ames and her colleagues synthesize a lifetime of observation of children, consultation, and discussion with parents. These books will help parents to better understand their children and will guide them through the fascinating and sometimes trying experiences of modern parenthood.”—Donald J. Cohen, M.D., Director, Yale Child Study Center, Irving B. Harris Professor of Child Psychiatry, Pediatrics, and Psychology, Yale School of Medicine
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As with the other books in this series, most of this book is a bang-on take of what your N year old is going through - how they're behaving, why they're behaving like that, and what you can do about it. The advice in Your Two-Year Old, it was mostly: TV and babysitters. NO PROBLEMO. I am over the screentime moral panic, sign me up.
As with the previous book, it's super dated and so - amidst all the gems of timeless wisdom - there are, err, real hilarious clunkers. My favorite being the advice that, okay, some kids might need a good spanking - nothing excessive - but especially if they're mesomorphic boys. Ectomorphic? Something about body shape. I was just like, okay, this is Yale, but this is the 1970s, moving right along.
The final outcome of this book - just for me and my parenting - was the best one: I felt more compassionate and more patient. Onto the next years!