Thirteen Reasons Why

“No one knows for certain how much impact they have on the lives of other people. Oftentimes, we have no clue. Yet we push it just the same.”

I am aware that this is sensitive topic and that my review may very well upset some people. If you feel that this may apply to you, please just skip reading this.

Where to begin? Let's start with the book itself because there are two tales really being told here. First and foremost we get the tale of Hannah who left tapes for Clay and others to listen to in order to find out the part they played in her death. What Clay hears on the tapes not only gives him greater insight in the situation at hand, which leads us to our second tale...Clay's story. Clay the emotionally insecure teenager who does not appear to be confident in himself. Not even enough to talk to the girl he claims to love. This is not Clay hate by any means, but is stating the obvious fact the Clay does seem to be battling some things himself. Overall the story hits many great points and opens the door to discuss issues with rape culture, sexual harassment, and suicide. I do think it missed the mark with discussing victim shaming and survivors guilt. I do have an issue with the idea of “loving” someone through the situation. While one can love someone as much as humanly possible and do whatever they need, I do think the book presents the idea that everyone who chooses to commit suicide could've been saved if they were loved more. I'm not sure this is the message the book is attempting to send, but nevertheless it is a message that is out there. Again while I think the book opens the door to having the discussion if you see someone you think is in need the best thing you can do is attempt to help them get professional help. I'm not saying that is the end all be all, but it is a start.