The Princess Saves Herself in this One

4.5 stars

This was really good. I don't read a lot of poetry, but I intend to keep reading Amanda Lovelace's work.

This is her story told in poems, her story of the stuff she's been through and how she learned to love herself. I didn't always agree with her conclusions, but I appreciate the questions she raised and her acknowledgement of the things we're told as women that have a long-term effect. For example:

sticks and stones
never broke
my bones,
but words
made me
starve myself
until
you could
see all of them.

Trigger warnings for abuse, rape, self harm, eating disorder, and suicide. However, as someone who is triggered by some of these, I felt more seen than triggered. I found this collection affirming and empowering.

Additional note: there is some swearing, so be aware of that if that bothers you.