How to Say Babylon: A Memoir

One of the most moving and beautiful books I have read in a long time. I listened to the audio version and the book was read by the author. I think her voice brought her words to life. Her life was often a struggle, but the resilience she showed was awe-inspiring.

How to say Babylon is a perfect mix of direct prose and poetic writing all mixed up into a beautifully told memoir.

This book was recommended to me by a friend whose book recommendations I always take a serious as gold. When I check this book out from the library, I expected it to be a similar telling of “Educated” where the writer is very direct and detailed with what they have survived and how it affects them into their adulthood. “How to Say Babylon” is much more detailed into what is expected as a Rasta woman and the history of Rastafarians.

I learned so much about Rastafari culture and the ingrained misogyny into an almost organized religion created in the confines of Jamaica. Some of it being very beautiful, the importance connected to nature, the liberation of Black people in Jamaica & the world, and creating a society of peaceful likeminded individuals. I also had no idea about the poor reputation of Rasta bredren in Jamaica and the amount of disrespect and cruelty thrown at this community of people. Like almost all sectors of religion, although well-meaning, may end up being perpetrators of their own oppression, especially towards women and their roles within these societies.

How to say, Babylon is extremely eye-opening to how seclusion and purity culture within certain “sects” of Rastafari can be extremely isolating and eventually abusive . Though the tenants taught and believed is so beautifully represented in this story, so much of what it means to be Rastafari went directly against what Sinclair wanted for her life, which was to be a poet. This story is written in a way that feels like the waves coming in and out from the shore. You wait for her to stand up, but then she has to retreat again because the waves call her back. So much of what she was ingrained to do was represent her father, and to be a part of this culture that defined her, but didn't represent her.

At the end of the book, the climax of abuse happened so quickly in terms of page count that the eventual reconciliation felt somewhat rushed to me. For Safiya, it was years of time spent away from her father learning how she felt and coming to terms with her childhood, but to the reader, it happened so quickly, I didn't feel that the emotional payoff really reflected how she felt in her life. I don't feel privy to her emotional development, but I wish that had played out a little bit differently at the end of the book.


I think this book is a great way to understand another culture and the history and beauty behind it. Sinclair's writing of Jamaica is astounding and transport you directly to the island. One of my best reads so far in 2024.

4.5!!!

I'm only half kidding when I say it's a Rastafarian Educated, but that's too easy an analogy that doesn't do the language justice. Sinclair is a poet and it comes through in the absolutely gorgeous prose here. Describing her life of near poverty in Jamaica, living under the volatile whims of her father and his seemingly arbitrary adherence to Rastafarian tenets only gives you the barest of outlines. It is a truly incredible story that is both unbelievably restrained and measured while searing in its observations. Sinclair manages to extend grace to those whose actions would easily justify a scorched earth takedown. It was a bookclub selection that I wasn't sure about, but found myself grateful for the chance to experience this one.