Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

2022 • 289 pages

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Average rating3.7

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I read his memoir the day after his death from about 3:30 AM until 10:00 AM; all read in one session. It was very well done. Per the New York Times article, no ghostwriter and he made his deadlines. I had preordered it but it is not unusual for me not to read a book right away. It helped me process his sudden passing. Whatever the coroner's findings will be, I won't be surprised – even if his death was purely an accident.
He shared a difficult story very well. No hagiography and also no complete thrashing of self or annoyingly long apologies. There was hope when he wrote it. He will be missed.

October 29, 2023