Dating Dr. Dil

rating -4/5
okay?? why did i expect to not like this at all?? first ever desi book I've read (if you leave out middle school indian authors like chetan bhagat, nikita singh, durjoy datta etcetc) and i thoroughly thoroughly enjoyed it:)

The concept is super unique. The arranged marriage vs love marriage and love vs compatibility was the perfect setup to explore dynamics and relationships in brown families. The writing was pretty fast paced and flowed really well. So much so that, I was planning to read it in between studying but ended up studying in between reading T_T.

The characters were well done and had good chemistry. Their dates were so so fun! and unique:D a pani puri eating competition and a murder scavenger hunt are such great ideas. i absolutely loved it.

A few complaints that brought down my rating would be the fmc being just a tad bit over dramatic imo. But again, the characterisation was consistent and looking back, it does make sense for her to be on guard and unwilling if a guy she's getting engaged to, doesn't believe in love.
OH OH OH. AND Charlie??? Jalebi??? plis lets not—let's just. not. i cringed everytime.

yep that's pretty much it. happy i picked this up. you should too! :)

This was a rec from a Desi reviewer on YouTube and I really liked reading a romance from such a different cultural perspective. Did he really need to name his penis though that was an intense ick

I really enjoyed this book!! I thought the characters were unique and funny and I loved learning about the different cultures

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

2.75*

3.5/5

There's a lot to like about this book but Prem is such a tosser that it really detracts from the story. Which guy would call their dick Charlie and refer to it as an actual entity?! God.

Shout out to the representation in this book. We love to see it.

But I also hated the characters and dialogue and overall plot. Talk about allosexual propaganda.

Honestly this book could have been a great, diverse feminist read but it really missed the mark.

And Prem, the male mc, unironically called his dick “Charlie”?!?! And that he literally pressured Kareena into dating him? And showed up unannounced to “rescue her from a date”

A fun romance surrounded by the complications of love and family.

The story is rich with cultural details that I wasn't familiar with but never found alienating. They're presented in a way that's both informative and seems natural in context.

The romance is funny, steamy, and complex. There's a lot of background info packed into the beginning but it mellows out as the story goes on.

3.5 ⭐

Most of this book made me cringe. The vapid mc's, constant talk about Taylor Swift (literally mentioned 9 times and there's a full playlist in the back), and complete fumble with awkward usage of euphemisms and slang during the heated scenes. I hate Charlie. This was an absolute no for me. The bare bones and the cultural aspects were the only saving grace. Never a good sign when I keep catching myself saying, “Please let this end soon.”

2.5 ⭐️
I had mixed feelings about this one... not sure if it was Prem calling his penis ‘Charlie', the very annoying sister character or just the fact that I felt no connect towards any character in this story - it was just really boring to me through most of it.

It did have its funny moments and a good amount of smut, but in the end it didn't have the wow factor. This book was definitely a miss for me.

GENRE/TROPES:
- Fake Dating
- Arranged Marriages
- Indian-American culture
- Steamy

When I first saw Nisha's publishing deal announcement that she was writing a series of desi romantic retellings of Shakespeare's stories, I was immediately intrigued and have been waiting for one to release since. But I also have no clue about the plot of Taming of the Shrew, so I can't comment anything on how close or not it is to the original. I can just say it stands very well on its own.

This was quite enjoyable to read all the way through. Nisha's writing has a way to make you feel good and that's what I felt for the most part. We have a sassy and true romantic at heart heroine Kareena who is happy to be working in the field that makes her happy even if her pay doesn't live up to desi parents' expectations. And Prem is a cardiologist who believes love only increases the risks for heart health. How these two come together is pretty explosive and funny, but one undeniable thing is that their chemistry is off the charts. She is a strong independent woman who knows what she wants and will not lower her standards just because she is thirty. And despite whatever misgiving he has about love as a concept, Prem is a considerate, attentive and respectful guy and they seemed so perfect together. They both also had a couple of amazing bffs and I have a feeling we might see them getting together in the upcoming books of this series.

But my problem with the book has to do with the families. Firstly, because this series is titled “If Shakespeare was an Auntie”, I'm glad depicted four delightful aunties who could be meddlesome as expected but also sweet and a bit more progressive than I would have thought. But it's mostly Kareena's family that infuriated me. Bindu, her younger sister is a full on Bridezilla and always taking advantage of her elder sister, disrespecting her but expecting only affection in return. But I liked how Kareena decided to deal with her towards the end.

But it's both her father and grandma who were typical desi elders taunting Kareena for her choices and emotionally blackmailing her to get what they wanted. At this time in my life, I've realized that contemporary (or maybe even historical) romances don't work for me because I've become too cynical. Even though I can still appreciate them when I need some fun, I've also understood that I should stay far away from desi romances. While it's cool to see protagonists like myself on page, it's very hard to listen to the elders on page regurgitate the same nonsense that I hear everyday irl from my family, and I absolutely have no interest in reliving all of it while reading as well, because books are my only source of joy these days.

Anyways, let me not dampen anyone else's mood with my problems. This is a super fun romcom with interesting characters, sexy chemistry, great friends and some cool aunties and I would definitely recommend it to anyone looking for something like that. It'll probably take a few months or an year for the next book to release and I hope I will be in a much better headspace to appreciate a desi romance novel by then.