Care and Feeding of Ravenously Hungry Girls

For book club. This was not on my radar at all, and I ended up enjoying it. It contains a lot of topics that would be considered difficult (incarceration of a parent, eating disorders, violence, physical/emotional/verbal abuse, runaway teenager, etc.), but doesn't dig too far into anything, making this a book that's easy to breeze through in spite of it all. It told a compelling story of a complicated family, but I probably will not retain it for much longer than it takes to discuss it. (Not to say it's forgettable, but I know me, and my brain is Swiss cheese.)

Beautifully written with heartfelt and real characters and a unique story line. I loved the way Gray portrayed real world issues here, and how the issues were treated - not dramatized, but not with kid gloves either. So so so well done.

If I could give this 6 stars, I would! This family has had hard times and hurt each other, but they still come together in a crisis. And through that, they face some of their mistakes and decide to do better. This is just the best that a family can do as a family. I will be thinking about these characters long after I have finished the book.

I loved this book. I tore through it because Gray shows you enough of the familiar to keep you comfortable while also roughing the edges enough to remind you of your own limitations. The story is beautifully constructed, the characters full and rich, and the language resonates at just the right cadence.

I listened to the audiobook of this, which I thought was extremely well done with some really good narrators.

The story centres around a family of three sisters, Althea, Violet and Lilian, and their extended family and how they cope when Althea and her husband are sent to jail for fraud, leaving their two daughters in limbo. Even worse, Althea and Proctor are hated by the community where they live.

The story is narrated first person by the sisters, and in letters from Proctor to Althea. The sisters, along with their brother who is not as prevalent in the story, have all been affected by their unhappy childhood after their mother died leaving them to be looked after by their stern father. Althea has married her childhood sweetheart Procter, and is kind of a pillar of the community until she gets caught, although she has a difficult relationship with her daughter Kim. Lilian lives in the house where she grew up, widowed and caring for her late husband's grandmother. Violet is separated from her wife and struggling with anorexia and bulimia. The brother Joe is the only person who seems to have got off without becoming miserable and he and his wife are pillars of the church. Kim is mixed up and feels like Althea hates her due to her mother's strict attitude to her, and Baby Vi shows signs that she is becoming anorexic as well. Althea refuses to see the girls and Kim feel like it is because she hates her.

Food and hunger is a major theme of the book, as is the imagery of a river that Althea keeps going back to in her mind. The sisters are all forced by circumstances to take responsibility for themselves and their own happiness. The characters are beautifully crafted and you really feel as if you know them and will miss them after the book is finished. Aside from the sisters, I thought the characters in the prison where Althea is incarcerated were great, and Ni Ni the Korea grandmother living in the family home was so fantastically narrated by the voice of Lilian, she really brought her to life. Althea's daughters Kim and Baby Vi also provide pivotal roles to the story.

This was a brilliant book that I really enjoyed listening to, full of beautiful little touches. It explores the history of the characters in detail and why they are the way that they are.