The 5 Love Languages

I finally got around to reading this! The idea has been helpful to me for many years, but I'd never read the original source. It's a bit dated and heteronormative and whooeee are there some problematic parts/chapters, but it was still interesting and I gleaned some useful tidbits from it, and in general I think it is a model that can lend some clarity to figuring out what you need / what partners need in relationships, so it gets three stars.

I recommend this as a follow-up read: https://thespanofmyhips.wordpress.com/2016/09/21/the-five-love-languages-expanded/