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Part of the bestselling Surrounded by Idiots series! #1 internationally bestselling author Thomas Erikson shows readers how to identify and avoid the psychopaths around them. Charming, charismatic, and delightful or manipulative, self-serving, and cunning? Psychopaths are both and that’s exactly what makes them dangerous. Bestselling author of the international phenomenon Surrounded by Idiots, Thomas Erikson reveals how to identify the psychopaths in your life and combat their efforts to control and manipulate. Using the same simple four-color system of behavior classification that made Surrounded by Idiots so popular, Surrounded by Psychopaths teaches readers how to deal with psychopaths in their lives by becoming aware of their own behavior and their weaknesses. Vivid example stories illustrate ways that psychopaths can take advantage of various behavior types, helping readers identify their own weaknesses and be proactive about protecting themselves. Erikson outlines some of the most common forms of manipulation used by psychopaths—and others—to influence those around them. Since manipulation can often be a feature of ordinary, non-psychopathic relationships, the book also includes practical methods and techniques to help readers confront controlling people and rehabilitate negative relationships into mutually respectful ones. By understanding your behavior as well as the tendencies and strategies of psychopaths, Surrounded by Psychopaths will teach you to protect yourself from manipulative influence in your workplace, social life, and family.
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The first thing I did when I picked up this book was look at the Johari Window on the very first page. I was super confused. It just didn't make any sense to me. However, once I reached page 35, I was able to see that there was an error on the coloured quadrant initially saw: the “not” was missing from the second “known to self.” Phew. All was right in my world again. (Insert eye roll here.)
I'm not a huge fan of this Johari Window—it's probably because it's simplistic and makes complete sense. (Insert a second eye roll at self here.) But I did discover that I am a huge fan of Thomas Erikson's writing. I haven't read anything else by him, but I will be sure to going forward. This was a wonderfully informative and engaging book on how to acknowledge and face the psychopaths on your life, and people in general.