Ratings126
Average rating3.5
book 70 from 1000
ok. first of all, it was definitely much more realistic than “TFIOS” when it comes to people with cancer, and also teenagers. (and I liked how nobody fell in love with anybody and even when there was feelings, it was a “boner”. (no. you dont fall in love looking at someone.) that's what I'm talking about when I say much more realistic. (personally I loked “TFIOS” when I read it 4 years ago but I read some critical reviews about it recently and I found em logical.)
There was no miracle happening, it felt just so realistic and a lot of stuff went wrong just like in real life. the characters weren't philosophers and cancer didn't make anyone any smarter.
Greg (the protagonist) was well-written; I mean he kinda sucked but he was relatable sometimes and it wasn't hard to understand his feelings/decisions.
to be honest, I expected the book to be funnier from what I read in people's reviews. it didn't “crack me up” and honestly I don't even remember if I smiled reading it. (and I'm not 30, I'm still 17.) (it was still cool and I liked the style.)
anyways, it was intriguing for me and I finished it pretty fast given that English is my second language and I haven't read a lot in it.
in general, I didn't like it that much to give it 4 stars, but it was still fine so 3 it is.
oh, and it didn't feel like he was 17 for me, he seemed younger and so did the whole story.
«من و ارل و دختر در حال مردن» خیلی واقعبینانهتر از «نحسی ستارگان بخت ما» بود و بیمار سرطانی بیشتر شبیه به بيمار سرطانی و نوجوون بیشتر شبیه به نوجوون بود. هیچکس عاشق کسی نشد، هیچ معجزهای اتفاق نیفتاد و خیلی چیزها درست مثل زندگی واقعی بد پیش رفت. شخصیتها فیلسوف نبودن و سرطان هیچکس رو باهوشتر نکرد.
شخصیت اصلی گاهی خیلی رواعصاب بود ولی درک احساسات و تصمیماتش خیلی سخت نبود و خوب نوشته شده بود.
داستان برای من اونقدرها که شنيده بودم خندهدار نبود ولی در کل سبکش رو دوست داشتم. (یکم خیلی تینیجریه و شاید هرکسی باهاش ارتباط برقرار نکنه.)
به هر حال کشش زیادی برای من داشت و خوندنش نسبتاً خیلی کم طول کشید.
در کل اونقدری دوستش نداشتم که بهش ۴ بدم ولی باز هم تجربه دلچسبی بود پس ٣ براش خوبه.