I Curse You with Joy

Enjoyable

As someone who mostly reads fiction, I occasionally reach for a memoir when I need a break. This audiobook worked well as a palate cleanser—entertaining enough to hold my attention, especially since I had some time to spare. That said, I preferred The Last Black Unicorn by far.

I Curse You With Joy picks up where The Last Black Unicorn left off. It’s structured as a series of short stories, but this time around, they didn’t land as well. The content leans heavily into sex—almost to the point of monotony. I don’t mind mature themes, but when every other story circles back to body parts or sexual encounters, it starts to feel repetitive.

Still, I respect that Tiffany Haddish tells her story on her own terms. Her delivery is raw, unfiltered, and conversational, and she does offer some genuinely insightful moments. The problem is, those moments often get buried under crass jokes or overused punchlines. The balance between humor and heart just isn't quite there.

That said, the final chapters are the strongest. My favorite pieces—“I See You South Central,” “Tea with an OG,” and “Blessings”—show Haddish at her most reflective. She opens up about real pain: George Floyd, the Capitol riots, and shaving her head. One moment that stood out to me was her openness about suffering multiple miscarriages. That’s something many women quietly carry without ever talking about. Hearing someone like Tiffany speak on it openly, without shame, is important. It helps normalize a painful experience that’s often hidden, and it can make a difference for mothers who feel isolated or guilty. The fact that she brings it up in such a matter-of-fact, conversational way might be exactly what someone needs to hear.

Overall, I don’t regret listening to it. Haddish’s honesty is bold and unapologetic—and that alone makes the memoir worth a listen.