Furiously Happy

Furiously Happy

2015 • 315 pages

Ratings171

Average rating3.9

15

Furiously Happy is, in my humble opinion, something that should be read by anyone who struggles with any kind of depression, anxiety, or other mental illness, as well as those close to someone who does. Lawson uses absurd and hilarious stories along with some really serious truth nuggets to shine a light on the stigma of mental illness, and what it's really like to live with it.

The daughter of a taxidermist, Lawson loves taxidermied animals (mostly the craziest looking ones she can find). That's why the cover of the book features a taxidermied raccoon with a crazy look on his face and his hands in the air :D. The premise behind the term “furiously happy” is this: Lawson is determined to make the good days of her life so furiously happy that they carry her right through the bad ones. She takes those good days and she fills them with moments to remember, and that's what she thinks about during the next week when she's too anxious and depressed to leave her bed. No matter how dark the current day, she knows that those moments will come again on the next good day.

One of my favorite paragraphs:

“Without the dark there isn't light. Without the pain there is no relief. And I remind myself that I'm lucky to be able to feel such great sorrow, and also such great happiness. I can grab on to each moment of joy and live in those moments because I have seen the bright contrast from dark to light and back again. I am privileged to be able to recognize that the sound of laughter is a blessing and a song, and to realize that the bright hours spent with my family and friends are extraordinary treasures to be saved, because those same moments are a medicine, a balm. Those moments are a promise that life is worth fighting for, and that promise is what pulls me through when depression distorts reality and tries to convince me otherwise.”

That passage is so beautiful, I can't even come up with the words to describe it.

Read my full review here: http://www.literaryquicksand.com/2016/04/review-furiously-happy-by-jenny-lawson/

April 10, 2016