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A New York Times Book Review Notable Book, A Life’s Work: On Becoming a Mother is multi-award-winning author Rachel Cusk’s honest memoir that captures the life-changing wonders of motherhood. Selected by the New York Times as one of the 50 Best Memoirs of the Past 50 Years The experience of motherhood is an experience in contradiction. It is commonplace and it is impossible to imagine. It is prosaic and it is mysterious. It is at once banal, bizarre, compelling, tedious, comic, and catastrophic. To become a mother is to become the chief actor in a drama of human existence to which no one turns up. It is the process by which an ordinary life is transformed unseen into a story of strange and powerful passions, of love and servitude, of confinement and compassion. In a book that is touching, hilarious, provocative, and profoundly insightful, novelist Rachel Cusk attempts to tell something of an old story set in a new era of sexual equality. Cusk’s account of a year of modern motherhood becomes many stories: a farewell to freedom, sleep, and time; a lesson in humility and hard work; a journey to the roots of love; a meditation on madness and mortality; and most of all a sentimental education in babies, books, toddler groups, bad advice, crying, breastfeeding, and never being alone. “Funny and smart and refreshingly akin to a war diary—sort of Apocalypse Baby Now...A Life’s Work is wholly original and unabashedly true.”—The New York Times Book Review
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As far as books on motherhood go, this was perfection. If you are not a new parent, like myself, it is a fresh and lively reminder of the dark and challenging times that comes with raising a baby. If you're not raising a child, it's a glimpse into another dimension—the surreal, alternate universe that a new parent must traverse. It is the first I have read of Rachel Cusk, despite having many of her books on my to-read-soon list, and I am ever more eager to read her fiction. She is witty and brutally honest. Her imagery is delightfully colourful and at times, laugh-out-loud funny.
With my daughter's sixth birthday quickly approaching, this was the exact book I needed to remind myself of the remarkably difficult stage early parenthood was; it provided me a chance to reflect on the trauma of birth, the ostensible endlessness of sleep deprivation, and the frenzy of keeping a little creature alive. I also recommend this book to anyone who wants to understand what it would be like to be a new parent, even if one doesn't plan on raising a child—the insight will provide enlightenment as well as compassion for what all parents experience in one way or another.
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